Welcome.......You can't make this shit up!

Published on March 9, 2026 at 5:43 PM

I feel like we have all told our kids that being a grownup is not as exciting as you think it is. In fact, it is an epic shit show, and we are just trying to stay afloat. And for the most part, I am successful. But, as we all know, life never goes as planned. We have to roll with the punches, and that I surely did! I would like to share some of that with you. 

Feeling alone is one of the worst feelings in the world, and I have learned that you will never be more alone than when you need help the most. It is ok to ask for help, I lost myself in a mess I didn't understand. I am not a professional, I am not a doctor, but I am an outspoken woman who believes that we only hurt ourselves by being silent. 

Join me on a journey of crazy you cannot make up. Like for real, if Lifetime would read the stories I am about to tell (that are all very much real life), I would be a millionaire! Laugh at me, cry with me, and if anything, I hope that my lessons and journey in life can help someone else when they need it! 

A mother first, wife second, Air Force Veteran, and a bitch with a real grudge against hiding the truth in any capacity!

At 39 years old, I never saw myself on marriage number three to husband number one! But, here we are forgiving, loving, healing, and trying to raise our kids to be contributing members of society! Nothing is easy, but it is absolutely worth it!

Follow along on our journey, the ups the downs, the in betweens, and the WTF'S! Follow along, I promise, it is worth the read!